Relationship Health Quiz

Welcome to the Relationship Health Quiz

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This Relationship Health Quiz is not intended to be a diagnostic tool. Rather, it is designed to give you a general feeling of how well your present long-term relationship is working and whether intervention with a professional relationship therapist would be helpful.

Regardless of the score you receive on this assessment, the decision to seek relationship therapy is a highly personal choice that must be weighed against a number of factors, and this quiz should in no way be construed as a recommendation for therapy or any other kind of intervention. All such decisions are subject to your own thoughts and the recommendations of your primary medical provider.

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Neil Moore

1) I fear my partner is bored.
2) I win my share of disputes.
3) I am out of control.
4) My partner thinks I am fun to be with.
5) My partner is a taker.
6) My partner respects me.
7) My partner puts our relationship ahead of all others.
8) We have become nothing more than roommates.
9) My partner treats me like an employee.
10) I feel appreciated.
11) I feel needed by my partner.
12) My partner is ashamed of me.
13) I chose my partner for the wrong reasons.
14) My partner is lucky to have me.
15) I am no longer proud of my body.
16) I am satisfied with my sex life.
17) It's not easy to share my feelings.
18) I would rather lie than deal with a problem.
19) My partner thinks I am boring in bed.
20) We still have a lot of passion in our relationship.
21) I feel judged and rejected by my partner.
22) I know my partner will never leave me.
23) I feel loved.
24) My partner still finds me desirable.
25) We enjoy going out on dates alone.
26) My partner doesn’t like to share what’s on his or her mind.
27) I look forward to our time together.
28) I know I am right.
29) I am allowed to think for myself.
30) Sometimes I just want to hurt my partner.
31) My partner treats me with dignity and respect.
32) We just seem to want different things.
33) My partner wants to hear my stories.
34) Our relationship has gotten boring.
35) I am trapped with no escape.
36) I imagine myself divorced.
37) I feel crowded by my partner.
38) People have no idea what our relationship is really like.
39) I feel picked on and put down.
40) I am honest with my partner.
41) My partner doesn't really listen to me.
42) My partner constantly compares me to others.
43) We trust each other a great deal.
44) My partner often says, "I love you."
45) My partner has shut me out.
46) I trust my partner.
47) I never satisfy my partner.
48) My partner cares if I am upset or sad.
49) My partner is jealous of me.
50) I envy my friends’ relationships.
51) My partner is there for me in hard times.
52) I feel hopeful about the future.
53) My relationship is what I always dreamed of.
54) Sometimes I feel rage.
55) My partner treats me like a child.
56) My partner is harsh in his or her criticism.
57) My partner would protect me if necessary.
58) My partner is my primary source of emotional support.
59) My partner is open to suggestions.
60) We often do fun things together.
61) My partner understands me.
62) I am suspicious of my partner.